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WHAT IS HIV AND AIDS
HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency
Virus. HIV is the virus which, along with
other contributing factors, is believed
to cause AIDS by slowly destroying our
body's ability to fight off disease.
A positive, or "reactive"
HIV antibody test means that you have
come into contact with HIV and have been
infected with this virus. A positive HIV
antibody test does not mean that you have
AIDS.
AIDS stands for Acquired Immune
Deficiently Syndrome. When you have AIDS,
it means that your body's immune
system, which helps fight disease, has
been weakened. You are vulnerable to
serious infections, often called
opportunistic infections, which can
kill you.
HIV is spread:
- through penetrative sex, anal or
vaginal, without using a latex
condom
- by sharing needles or syringes
without proper cleaning
- from mother to baby during
pregnancy, childbirth or
breastfeeding
- through artificial insemination
and transfusions with blood or
blood products which have not
been properly screened
PEOPLE CAN HAVE HIV
INFECTION AND CONTINUE TO LEAD HEALTHY,
PRODUCTIVE LIVES
PEOPLE CAN LIVE WELL
FOR YEARS WITH AIDS

SO YOUR
TEST IS POSITIVE
Getting a positive HIV test can be a shock. You
may be full of anger and blame. These reactions
are normal. Take a deep breath and remember these
facts:
A positive HIV test does not mean that you have
AIDS
Women with HIV and AIDS enjoy life
Lots of women like you are living healthy and
positive lives with HIV and AIDS
Staying Healthy
At first things can seem overwhelming. But take a
good look at your lifestyle and think about how
to make it healthier.
Everyone's strategy for staying well is
different. Decide what's right for you, but don't
feel guilty if you can't change things overnight.
Your health strategy has to be manageable. You
can change it from time to time depending on how
you're feeling.
Here are some of the things you might consider
when you are planning your health strategy.
Healthy Eating
These and other good foods support a healthy
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Vegetables and fruits |
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Whole grains |
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Chicken and fish |
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Beans |
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Nuts and seeds |
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Try to reduce your intake of junk foods, and of
foods that contain a lot of white flour, sugar,
and chemical additives. Some women living with
HIV and AIDS find a yeast-free or other special
diet helpful. Read cookbooks. Consult a
naturopath or doctor knowledgeable in nutrition.
Visit a health food store. Experiment
to find what works for you.
Supplements
People living with HIV and AIDS are often low in
certain vitamins and minerals, so many of us take
vitamins and other supplements in addition to
eating well.
Nutritional supplements will help you to stay
healthy, return to health quickly after and
illness, and reduce the toxic effects of drugs
you may be taking.
Healthcare
Women's symptoms
Women get most of the same infections that HIV
positive men get. But we can also get health
problems such as hard-to-treat vaginal
infections, pelvic inflammatory disease, and
cervical cancer. Get a pap smear and pelvic
examination every six months to check for some of
these problems and treat them as soon as
possible.
Your medical doctor
Choose a doctor who gives you confidence, and
work hard to achieve a good relationship with her
or him. Feel free to ask questions or disagree.
You may know about treatments your doctor has not
even heard about yet. Your doctor should be
someone who knows about AIDS and HIV and how this
virus acts in women's bodies.
Other healthcare models
Other practices can support and complement your
healthcare strategy. Many women stay well with
naturopathy, acupuncture, massage, etc.
Your dentist
Dental care is important. You may wonder about
telling your dentist that you are HIV positive.
Most dentists use "universal
precautions" (take precautions like wearing
rubber gloves with all their patients to protect
against all diseases spread through bodily
fluids). If your dentist does this, then both you
and your dentist are safe, and you don't need to
say that you are HIV positive. But remember that
dental care is very important, and you will get
better care from a
dentist who knows your health history.
Check with your local AIDS service organization
for names of supportive and skilled health
professionals in your area.
Sleep
Fatigue is a common problem for people living
with HIV and AIDS. Try to get at least eight
hours of sleep nightly, and don't feel guilty
about taking naps throughout the day. If you
can't get to sleep at night, try to do things
that calm you. Take a warm bath, sip a cup of
herbal tea.
Exercise
Exercise in moderation stimulates the immune
system, oxygenates our blood, and improves
circulation, making us stronger. It can also
relax you and give you a great body! Try to build
regular exercise into your health strategy.
Drugs and Alcohol
Drugs (including caffeine and nicotine!) and
alcohol are not good for your immune system. If
you can stop or cut back, you will probably feel
better. If you are "using", make sure
you know how to do it safely.
Travel
Travel lifts your spirits. With precautions about
food and water we can travel and stay healthy.
Some countries have policies that restrict our
entry, so it's a good idea to check this out
before you buy your plane ticket. Health
insurance for travel out of the country is
important. You may want to take out cancellation
insurance, in case you can't go at the last
minutes because of illness.
Look into vaccinations (shots) to see if any
would make sense for you. Be aware that live
virus vaccines are not recommended for HIV
positive people. And be careful about getting too
much sun. It suppresses our immune system and can
trigger a herpes outbreak in those of us who have
that virus. Also, some drugs such as AZT and
Septra make us more sensitive to the sun so we
burn more easily.
Your emotions are important too
After you find out that you are HIV positive,
it's normal to feel that your emotions are on a
roller coaster. You may feel angry, sad, and all
alone. You may be putting on a brave front and
pretending that nothing is wrong.
Here are some things that can help you manage the
stress of living with HIV and AIDS:
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Listening to relaxation
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Meditation |
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Taking long walks
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Yoga and tai chi
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Talking to friends
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Attending support groups |
But let's face it... stress is hard to avoid.
Don't stress yourself out more by worrying too
much about how to avoid stress.
If things become really hard to deal with, there
are professional counsellors and therapists who
can help you.
Who should I tell?
Some women tell no one. Some women tell a small
circle of people they trust. Some women are very
public about being HIV positive. You do not have
to tell anyone that you are HIV positive. And
definitely not until you are ready. But you might
feel more relaxed and supported if you tell
people you trust. Take it slowly. Many women find
that people they thought would reject them
instead become better, closer friends.

SUBSTANCE
USE
Voices of Positive Women supports in a harm reduction approach towards
substance use. Whether it is smoking, party drugs, marijuana, or harder
substances it is important to work hard to help each other reduce the risks
involved in substance use by providing a supportive network whereby
substance users can access treatment at the level they need and feel
comfortable with. Voices now provides needle
exchange on site and all our staff have gone through the needle exchange
training!

PREGNANCY
“HIV is a world full of mysteries and ideas that has baffled even the
most advanced research. Pregnancy has also presented its share of
perplexities. Pregnant woman have been faced with many previously
undiscovered, unexpected challenges for centuries.
But,
through all these trials and tribulations, one thing has remained constant
and that is the miracle of birth. Our history (as a society in general) has
shown us many tragedies around childbirth. My heart goes out to anyone who
has experienced this. But, no matter what we’ve been faced with, no matter
what medical research becomes challenged by, the miracle of having children
has overcome so many obstacles and thanks to medical research and the
courage of many HIV+ women, it looks like HIV will be leaving the list of
exceptions.
Being an
HIV+ woman means making a lot of day to day, short term and long term
decisions. Decisions that are often uncomfortable and defeating. Being HIV+
and pregnant or deciding whether or not to get pregnant can be extremely
overwhelming.
There
have been some amazing advances in the prevention of mother-to-child
transmission, also referred to as vertical or perinatal transmission. It has
become far more likely that women with HIV will have healthy, uninfected
babies with good perinatal care. For HIV+ women, perinatal care comes with
having to make some tough decisions. Things to consider include anti-HIV
drug therapy (what to take, when to take it?), diet and exercise,
complimentary and/or alternative therapies and the list goes on. There has
been no evidence that being pregnant has any effect on the course of a
women’s HIV. Also, there is no evidence that HIV has any effect on the baby,
other than the risk of transmission, which we know can be greatly reduced.
Having an opportunistic infection can cause complications. It’s important
for an HIV+ woman to know the status of her health before making any
decisions.
The
following links and articles will provide more in depth research results.
Please take a moment to read them. As a PLWHA (Person lliving with HIV/AIDS) and a mother, I wouldn’t trade
my experience of having my son for anything in the world. It was and remains
today, an unfolding of wonders that I could never have previously imagined.
I am grateful for the information and the strategies that were so freely
presented to me. Information is empowerment. What amazing things we have
transcended!”
Kim
Johnson, Peer Network Coordinator (Voices of Positive Women)

DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT
If you are a woman who has experienced domestic violence or sexual assault,
or you know someone who has, please check out the following resources for
more information.
For more information on a Centre in you area
click on this link
http://www.hotpeachpages.net
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Website links & contact details: |
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Shelternet |
http://www.shelternet.ca |
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The
Assaulted Women’s Helpline |
(416)
863-0511 or 1-866-863-0511
(if outside 416 area code – Ontario only) |
Toronto Rape Crisis Centre:
Multicultural Women Against Rape |
(416)
597-8808 |
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Education Wife Assault |
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/ |
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Sexual Assault Centre London |
(519)438-2272 or 1-877-529-2272 Toll Free
http://www..sacl.ca |
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Canadian
Association of Sexual Assault Centres |
http://www.casac.ca/enghome.htm
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Women's Resources of Simcoe County/
Simcoe County Sexual Assault and Rape Crisis Centre |
Crisis 1-800-987-0799 or (705) 737-2008 |
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Belleville Sexual Assault
Centre |
1-800-909-7007
or
(613) 967-6000;
sacqd@lks.net |
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Algoma Women's Sexual Assault Services |
1-800-205-7100 or (705)356-4694;
tannasr@onlink.net
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Bracebridge:
Muskoka /
Parry Sound Coordinated Sexual Assault Services |
1-800-461-2929;
daphne@muskoka.com
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Bracebridge:
Sexual Assault Intervention for Living |
(705) 645-3613;
daphne@muskoka.com
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Brantford:
Sexual Assault Centre of Brantford |
(519) 751-3471 or TTY (519) 751-4054 |
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Brockville:
Sexual Assault Centre of Leeds & Grenville |
(613) 345-4288 or 1-800-567-7415
(613 area code only) |
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Carleton Place:
Lanark County Sexual Assault Crisis Support & Information Service |
1-800-387-0844 or (613) 253-8313 |
Chatham:
Chatham-Kent Sexual Assault Crisis Centre |
(519) 345-8688 (Native, French language services available);
cksacc@ciacess.com |
Cornwall:
Sexual Assault Support Services for Women (SDGNA) |
(613) 932-1603 or 1-800-461-8192 (English) or
1-800-463-0174 (French)
613 area code only; sasas@cnwl.igs.net |
Cornwall:
Akwasasne Family Violence Program
(i.e., Thi His Ten:ha) |
1-800-480-4208 or (613) 937-4208 |
Dubreuilville:
Algoma Women Sexual Assault Services |
1-800-205-7100 or (705) 884-2291;
nicoleb@onlink.net
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Durham:
Sexual Assault Centre of Grey and Bruce |
1-800-720-7411 or (519) 369-6633;
sacgb@bmts.com
http://www.bmts.com/~womencentre |
Eganville:
Women's Sexual Assault Centre of Renfrew County |
1-800-663-3060 or 1-800-461-9018
(819 and 613 area codes only);
womcen@webhart.net |
Guelph:
Guelph / Wellington Women in Crisis -
Sexual Assault Centre of Guelph
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(519) 836-5710 or 1-800-265-7233
519 area code only);
gwwicsac@web.net |
Hamilton:
Sexual Assault Centre (Hamilton and Area) |
(905) 525-4162 or (905) 525-4573;
sacha@sacha.on.ca
http://www.sacha.on.ca |
Kenora:
Kenora Sexual Assault Centre |
(807) 468-7233 or 1-800-565-6161
(807 and 705 area codes only);
rcc@voyager.ca |
Kingston:
Kingston Sexual Assault Crisis Centre |
(613) 544-6424 or (613) 545-0762 |
Kitchener:
Kitchener-Waterloo Sexual Assault Support Centre |
(519) 741-8633;
kwsasc@web.net |
Mississauga:
Sexual Assault Care and Counseling Centre |
(905) 848-7586 |
Mississauga:
Sexual Assault and Rape Crisis Centre of Peel |
(905) 273-9442 or 1-800-810-0180 |
Newmarket:
Women's Sexual Assault Help Line and
Outreach of York Region |
(905) 895-7313 or (416) 213-7499 or 1-800-263-6734 (905 and 705 area
codes only |
North Bay:
Amelia Rising Women's Collective Sexual Assault Centre of Nippising |
(705) 476-3355 or (705) 840-2403 |
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Oakville:
Holton Rape Crisis Centre |
(905) 825-1555 or (905) 825-3622 |
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Orillia:
Simcoe County & Miscoca Regional Sexual Assault Care & Treatment Centre
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(705) 327-9155 |
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Oshawa:
Oshawa-Durham Rape Crisis Centre |
(905) 725-2241 or (905) 725-6152 |
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Ottawa:
Sexual Assault Support Centre |
(613) 234-2266 or (613) 725-2160 or TTY (613) 725-1657;
sascott@istar.ca |
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Ottawa: Ottawa
Rape Crisis Centre |
(613) 562-2333 or TTY (613) 562-3860;
orcc@ottawa.com
http://orcc.net/ |
Pembroke:
Sexual Assault Counselling Services
(Pembroke General Hospital Social Work Department) |
(613) 732-1615 |
Peterborough:
Kawarths Sexual Assault Centre |
(705) 711-0260 or TTY (705) 745-5901
(also business line) |
Sarnia:
Sexual Assault Survivors Centre (Sarnia-Lambton) |
(519) 337-3320 or (519) 337-3154 or TTY (519) 337-1117;
sascsl@ebtech.net
http://www.sexualassaultsarnia.on.ca
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Sault Ste. Marie:
Algoma Women's Sexual Assault Services |
1-800-205-7100 or (705) 256-2141 |
Sault Ste. Marie:
Sexual Assault Care Centre - Sault Area Hospitals |
(705) 759-5143 or (705) 759-5143 |
St. Thomas:
Violence Against Women Services (Elgin County) |
(519) 633-0155 or or 1-800-265-4305 |
Ste. Catherines:
Niagara Sexual Assault Centre (CARSA) |
(905) 682-4584 (accepts collect calls);
carsa@freenet.npiec.on.ca
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Sudbury:
Sudbury Sexual Assault Crisis Centre |
(705) 675-1323 or (705) 675-8071 |
Thunder Bay:
Thunder Bay Sexual Assault and Sexual Abuse Crisis and Counselling
Centre |
(807) 335-0062 or (807) 334-4502 |
Timmins:
Timmins and Area Women in Crisis |
(705) 268-8380 |
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Toronto
SOS Femmes |
(416) 759-0138 or 1-800-387-8603 (pour Ontario entier) |
White River:
Algoma Women Sexual Assault Services
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1-800-205-7100 or (807) 822-2041;
alison@onlink.net
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Windsor:
Windsor Sexual Assault Crisis Centre |
519) 523-9667 (French and English) or 1-800-387-8603 (SOS Femmes –
French only);
sacc@wincom.net
http://www.wincom.net/~sacc |
Woodstock:
Woodstock Women's Emergency Centres |
1-800-265-1838 (519 area code only) or (519) 539-4811;
wec@execulink.com |
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