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WHAT IS HIV AND AIDS
HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. HIV is the virus which, along with other contributing factors, is believed to cause AIDS by slowly destroying our body's ability to fight off disease.

A positive, or "reactive" HIV antibody test means that you have come into contact with HIV and have been infected with this virus. A positive HIV antibody test does not mean that you have AIDS.

AIDS stands for Acquired Immune Deficiently Syndrome. When you have AIDS, it means that your body's immune system, which helps fight disease, has been weakened. You are vulnerable to serious infections, often called opportunistic infections, which can kill you.

HIV is spread:

  • through penetrative sex, anal or vaginal, without using a latex condom
  • by sharing needles or syringes without proper cleaning
  • from mother to baby during pregnancy, childbirth or breastfeeding
  • through artificial insemination and transfusions with blood or blood products which have not been properly screened

PEOPLE CAN HAVE HIV INFECTION AND CONTINUE TO LEAD HEALTHY, PRODUCTIVE LIVES

PEOPLE CAN LIVE WELL FOR YEARS WITH AIDS

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SO YOUR TEST IS POSITIVE
Getting a positive HIV test can be a shock. You may be full of anger and blame. These reactions are normal. Take a deep breath and remember these facts:
A positive HIV test does not mean that you have AIDS
Women with HIV and AIDS enjoy life
Lots of women like you are living healthy and positive lives with HIV and AIDS

Staying Healthy
At first things can seem overwhelming. But take a good look at your lifestyle and think about how to make it healthier.

Everyone's strategy for staying well is different. Decide what's right for you, but don't feel guilty if you can't change things overnight. Your health strategy has to be manageable. You can change it from time to time depending on how you're feeling.

Here are some of the things you might consider when you are planning your health strategy.

Healthy Eating
These and other good foods support a healthy body:|
 
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Checked Chicken and fish Checked Beans
Checked Nuts and seeds    

Try to reduce your intake of junk foods, and of foods that contain a lot of white flour, sugar, and chemical additives. Some women living with HIV and AIDS find a yeast-free or other special diet helpful. Read cookbooks. Consult a naturopath or doctor knowledgeable in nutrition. Visit a health food store. Experiment
to find what works for you.

Supplements
People living with HIV and AIDS are often low in certain vitamins and minerals, so many of us take vitamins and other supplements in addition to eating well. Nutritional supplements will help you to stay healthy, return to health quickly after and illness, and reduce the toxic effects of drugs you may be taking.

Healthcare
Women's symptoms
Women get most of the same infections that HIV positive men get. But we can also get health problems such as hard-to-treat vaginal infections, pelvic inflammatory disease, and cervical cancer. Get a pap smear and pelvic examination every six months to check for some of these problems and treat them as soon as possible.

Your medical doctor
Choose a doctor who gives you confidence, and work hard to achieve a good relationship with her or him. Feel free to ask questions or disagree. You may know about treatments your doctor has not even heard about yet. Your doctor should be someone who knows about AIDS and HIV and how this virus acts in women's bodies.

Other healthcare models
Other practices can support and complement your healthcare strategy. Many women stay well with naturopathy, acupuncture, massage, etc.

Your dentist
Dental care is important. You may wonder about telling your dentist that you are HIV positive. Most dentists use "universal precautions" (take precautions like wearing rubber gloves with all their patients to protect against all diseases spread through bodily fluids). If your dentist does this, then both you and your dentist are safe, and you don't need to say that you are HIV positive. But remember that dental care is very important, and you will get better care from a dentist who knows your health history.

Check with your local AIDS service organization for names of supportive and skilled health professionals in your area.

Sleep
Fatigue is a common problem for people living with HIV and AIDS. Try to get at least eight hours of sleep nightly, and don't feel guilty about taking naps throughout the day. If you can't get to sleep at night, try to do things that calm you. Take a warm bath, sip a cup of herbal tea.

Exercise
Exercise in moderation stimulates the immune system, oxygenates our blood, and improves circulation, making us stronger. It can also relax you and give you a great body! Try to build regular exercise into your health strategy.

Drugs and Alcohol
Drugs (including caffeine and nicotine!) and alcohol are not good for your immune system. If you can stop or cut back, you will probably feel better. If you are "using", make sure you know how to do it safely.

Travel
Travel lifts your spirits. With precautions about food and water we can travel and stay healthy. Some countries have policies that restrict our entry, so it's a good idea to check this out before you buy your plane ticket. Health insurance for travel out of the country is important. You may want to take out cancellation insurance, in case you can't go at the last minutes because of illness.

Look into vaccinations (shots) to see if any would make sense for you. Be aware that live virus vaccines are not recommended for HIV positive people. And be careful about getting too much sun. It suppresses our immune system and can trigger a herpes outbreak in those of us who have that virus. Also, some drugs such as AZT and Septra make us more sensitive to the sun so we burn more easily.

Your emotions are important too
After you find out that you are HIV positive, it's normal to feel that your emotions are on a roller coaster. You may feel angry, sad, and all alone. You may be putting on a brave front and pretending that nothing is wrong.

Here are some things that can help you manage the stress of living with HIV and AIDS:
 
Checked Listening to relaxation tapes Checked Meditation
Checked Taking long walks Checked Yoga and tai chi
Checked Talking to friends Checked Attending support groups

But let's face it... stress is hard to avoid. Don't stress yourself out more by worrying too much about how to avoid stress. If things become really hard to deal with, there are professional counsellors and therapists who can help you.

Who should I tell?
Some women tell no one. Some women tell a small circle of people they trust. Some women are very public about being HIV positive. You do not have to tell anyone that you are HIV positive. And definitely not until you are ready. But you might feel more relaxed and supported if you tell people you trust. Take it slowly. Many women find that people they thought would reject them instead become better, closer friends.

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SUBSTANCE USE
Voices of Positive Women supports in a harm reduction approach towards substance use.  Whether it is smoking, party drugs, marijuana, or harder substances it is important to work hard to help each other reduce the risks involved in substance use by  providing a supportive network  whereby substance users can access treatment at the level they need and feel comfortable with. Voices now provides needle exchange on site and all our staff have gone through the needle exchange training!
 
Website links:
Toronto Raver Info Project

http://www.torontoraverinfoproject.ca

Canadian Harm Reduction Network

http://www.canadianharmreduction.com

ShootClean.com

http://www.shootclean.com/

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PREGNANCY
“HIV is a world full of mysteries and ideas that has baffled even the most advanced research. Pregnancy has also presented its share of perplexities. Pregnant woman have been faced with many previously undiscovered, unexpected challenges for centuries.

But, through all these trials and tribulations, one thing has remained constant and that is the miracle of birth. Our history (as a society in general) has shown us many tragedies around childbirth. My heart goes out to anyone who has experienced this. But, no matter what we’ve been faced with, no matter what medical research becomes challenged by, the miracle of having children has overcome so many obstacles and thanks to medical research and the courage of many HIV+ women, it looks like HIV will be leaving the list of exceptions.

Being an HIV+ woman means making a lot of day to day, short term and long term decisions. Decisions that are often uncomfortable and defeating. Being HIV+ and pregnant or deciding whether or not to get pregnant can be extremely overwhelming.

There have been some amazing advances in the prevention of mother-to-child transmission, also referred to as vertical or perinatal transmission. It has become far more likely that women with HIV will have healthy, uninfected babies with good perinatal care.  For HIV+ women, perinatal care comes with having to make some tough decisions.  Things to consider include anti-HIV drug therapy (what to take, when to take it?), diet and exercise, complimentary and/or alternative therapies and the list goes on.   There has been no evidence that being pregnant has any effect on the course of a women’s HIV. Also, there is no evidence that HIV has any effect on the baby, other than the risk of transmission, which we know can be greatly reduced. Having an opportunistic infection can cause complications. It’s important for an HIV+ woman to know the status of her health before making any decisions.

The following links and articles will provide more in depth research results. Please take a moment to read them. As a PLWHA (Person lliving with HIV/AIDS) and a mother, I wouldn’t trade my experience of having my son for anything in the world. It was and remains today, an unfolding of wonders that I could never have previously imagined. I am grateful for the information and the strategies that were so freely presented to me. Information is empowerment. What amazing things we have transcended!”

Kim Johnson, Peer Network Coordinator (Voices of Positive Women)
 

Website links:
Motherisk http://www.motherisk.org
The Teresa Group http://www.teresagroup.org
Project Inform – WISE http://www.projectinform.org/pub/ww_index.html
Women’s Outreach Network (WON) http://www.womenfightaids.com

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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT
If you are a woman who has experienced domestic violence or sexual assault, or you know someone who has, please check out the following resources for more information.

For more information on a Centre in you area click on this link http://www.hotpeachpages.net

Website links & contact details:
Shelternet http://www.shelternet.ca
The Assaulted Women’s Helpline (416) 863-0511 or 1-866-863-0511
(if outside 416 area code – Ontario only)
Toronto Rape Crisis Centre:
Multicultural Women Against Rape
(416) 597-8808
Education Wife Assault http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/
Sexual Assault Centre London (519)438-2272 or 1-877-529-2272 Toll Free
http://www..sacl.ca
Canadian Association of Sexual Assault Centres http://www.casac.ca/enghome.htm
Women's Resources of Simcoe County/
Simcoe County Sexual Assault and Rape Crisis Centre
Crisis 1-800-987-0799 or (705) 737-2008
Belleville Sexual Assault Centre 1-800-909-7007 or (613) 967-6000; sacqd@lks.net
Algoma Women's Sexual Assault Services 1-800-205-7100 or (705)356-4694; tannasr@onlink.net
 
Bracebridge:  Muskoka /
Parry Sound Coordinated Sexual Assault Services
1-800-461-2929; daphne@muskoka.com
Bracebridge:  Sexual Assault Intervention for Living (705) 645-3613; daphne@muskoka.com
Brantford:  Sexual Assault Centre of Brantford (519) 751-3471 or TTY (519) 751-4054 
 Brockville:  Sexual Assault Centre of Leeds & Grenville (613) 345-4288 or 1-800-567-7415
(613 area code only)
Carleton Place:  Lanark County Sexual Assault Crisis Support & Information Service 1-800-387-0844 or (613) 253-8313 
Chatham:
Chatham-Kent Sexual Assault Crisis Centre
(519) 345-8688 (Native, French language services available); cksacc@ciacess.com
Cornwall:
Sexual Assault Support Services for Women (SDGNA)
(613) 932-1603 or 1-800-461-8192 (English) or
1-800-463-0174 (French) 613 area code only; sasas@cnwl.igs.net
Cornwall:
Akwasasne Family Violence Program
(i.e., Thi His Ten:ha)
1-800-480-4208 or (613) 937-4208
Dubreuilville:
Algoma Women Sexual Assault Services
1-800-205-7100 or (705) 884-2291; nicoleb@onlink.net
 
Durham:
Sexual Assault Centre of Grey and Bruce
1-800-720-7411 or (519) 369-6633; sacgb@bmts.com
http://www.bmts.com/~womencentre
Eganville:
Women's Sexual Assault Centre of Renfrew County
1-800-663-3060 or 1-800-461-9018
(819 and 613 area codes only); womcen@webhart.net
Guelph: 
Guelph / Wellington Women in Crisis -
Sexual Assault Centre of Guelph
(519) 836-5710 or 1-800-265-7233
519 area code only); gwwicsac@web.net
Hamilton:
Sexual Assault Centre (Hamilton and Area)
(905) 525-4162 or (905) 525-4573; sacha@sacha.on.ca
http://www.sacha.on.ca
Kenora:
Kenora Sexual Assault Centre
(807) 468-7233 or 1-800-565-6161
(807 and 705 area codes only); rcc@voyager.ca
Kingston:
Kingston Sexual Assault Crisis Centre
(613) 544-6424 or (613) 545-0762
Kitchener:
Kitchener-Waterloo Sexual Assault Support Centre
(519) 741-8633; kwsasc@web.net 
Mississauga:
Sexual Assault Care and Counseling Centre
(905) 848-7586
Mississauga:
Sexual Assault and Rape Crisis Centre of Peel
(905) 273-9442 or 1-800-810-0180
Newmarket:
Women's Sexual Assault Help Line and
Outreach of York Region
(905) 895-7313 or (416) 213-7499 or 1-800-263-6734 (905 and 705 area codes only
North Bay:
Amelia Rising Women's Collective Sexual Assault Centre of Nippising
(705) 476-3355 or (705) 840-2403
Oakville:  Holton Rape Crisis Centre (905) 825-1555 or (905) 825-3622 
Orillia:  Simcoe County & Miscoca Regional Sexual Assault Care & Treatment Centre (705) 327-9155 
Oshawa:  Oshawa-Durham Rape Crisis Centre (905) 725-2241 or (905) 725-6152 
Ottawa:  Sexual Assault Support Centre (613) 234-2266 or (613) 725-2160 or TTY (613) 725-1657; sascott@istar.ca
Ottawa:  Ottawa Rape Crisis Centre (613) 562-2333 or TTY (613) 562-3860; orcc@ottawa.com
http://orcc.net/
Pembroke: 
Sexual Assault Counselling Services
(Pembroke General Hospital Social Work Department)
(613) 732-1615
Peterborough:
Kawarths Sexual Assault Centre
(705) 711-0260 or TTY (705) 745-5901
(also business line)
Sarnia:
Sexual Assault Survivors Centre (Sarnia-Lambton)
(519) 337-3320 or (519) 337-3154 or TTY (519) 337-1117; sascsl@ebtech.net
http://www.sexualassaultsarnia.on.ca
Sault Ste. Marie:
Algoma Women's Sexual Assault Services
1-800-205-7100 or (705) 256-2141
Sault Ste. Marie:
Sexual Assault Care Centre - Sault Area Hospitals
(705) 759-5143 or (705) 759-5143 
St. Thomas:
Violence Against Women Services (Elgin County)
(519) 633-0155 or or 1-800-265-4305
Ste. Catherines:
Niagara Sexual Assault Centre (CARSA)
(905) 682-4584 (accepts collect calls); carsa@freenet.npiec.on.ca
Sudbury:
Sudbury Sexual Assault Crisis Centre
(705) 675-1323 or (705) 675-8071
Thunder Bay:
Thunder Bay Sexual Assault and Sexual Abuse Crisis and Counselling Centre
(807) 335-0062 or (807) 334-4502 
Timmins:
Timmins and Area Women in Crisis
(705) 268-8380 
Toronto SOS Femmes (416) 759-0138 or 1-800-387-8603 (pour Ontario entier)
White River:
Algoma Women Sexual Assault Services
1-800-205-7100 or (807) 822-2041; alison@onlink.net
 
Windsor:
Windsor Sexual Assault Crisis Centre
519) 523-9667 (French and English) or 1-800-387-8603 (SOS Femmes – French only); sacc@wincom.net  http://www.wincom.net/~sacc
Woodstock:
Woodstock Women's Emergency Centres
1-800-265-1838 (519 area code only) or (519) 539-4811; wec@execulink.com

 

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